Learned Optimism, Learned Helplessness, And Why Some Folks In Red States Just Never Give Up

Yesterday, while trying to tame my unruly garden, I saw the first grasshopper of the year (which seems early, doesn’t it?). And I was reminded of an old experiment – one that sheds light on important aspects of the Republican strategy and how we can fight back. It’s an experiment you may have run (unintentionally) … Continue reading Learned Optimism, Learned Helplessness, And Why Some Folks In Red States Just Never Give Up

I Have Hot Flashes and a Republican Senator. Don’t Tell Me To Calm Down.

When you’re a woman of a certain age living in a red state, you honestly don’t have anything to lose. Over the better part of the last decade, we’ve watched in complete horror as everything we were “hysterical” about in the early morning hours of November 8, 2016 has come to pass. I remember November … Continue reading I Have Hot Flashes and a Republican Senator. Don’t Tell Me To Calm Down.

The Eclipse: A Full Circle and a Jumping Off Point

We are stardust brought to life, then empowered by the universe to figure itself out - and we have only just begun. ~Neil deGrasse Tyson Yesterday, in backyards from Texas to Maine, school kids and grandparents alike grabbed eclipse glasses and watched in awe as the light dimmed. It was a rare, strange, collective, experience. … Continue reading The Eclipse: A Full Circle and a Jumping Off Point

Is the message finally getting through?

There's something really fulfilling about seeing a message that you've been yammering on about for more than seven years finally take off. So you can imagine my delight when, over the past few weeks, I've seen multiple stories, emails, and social media posts about the need to run everywhere – and the benefits of doing … Continue reading Is the message finally getting through?

The Humanity Behind the News

This past week I was reminded of the humanity behind the news. It came at an interesting moment, to be honest. I was moderating a Forgotten Democrats town hall with Fred Wellman and a journalist, Martin Kuz, who has been covering the war in Ukraine. It was an intimate conversation, with a small group. Perhaps … Continue reading The Humanity Behind the News

Go Fly A Kite: Patience, Persistence, and a Last Minute Plan

Persistence can grind an iron beam into a needle. ~Chinese proverb Patience, persistence and perspiration make an unbeatable combination for success. ~Napoleon Hill “Go fly a kite” means something different in our family, because of a little … ahem … incident a few years ago. Picture a gorgeous fall day. Robin's egg blue sky, a chill to … Continue reading Go Fly A Kite: Patience, Persistence, and a Last Minute Plan

To You, Ten Years From Now

Yesterday I gave my eleven-year-old son a writing prompt. It’s the latest in a long series of projects that I hope will give him the practice that he needs to develop as a writer and a thinker. Sometimes the prompts I give him are inspiring. Sometimes they’re silly. Sometimes they’re serious. Sometimes they’re thought-provoking. Yesterday's … Continue reading To You, Ten Years From Now

There’s No Silver Bullet

Friend, forgive me for not rehashing the gnashing of teeth that I've seen over the last 48 hours. Plenty of ink has been spilled over whiplash polling and Supreme Court decisions, and I don't think you need to hear it from yet another angle. And honestly – hear me out – I think talking about it … Continue reading There’s No Silver Bullet

The Grassroots Does It Again

Yesterday, in the quiet dark of the early morning hours, I sat down at my little yellow kitchen bistro table, poured my coffee, and opened my computer. I spend the first few minutes of every day in that very spot, reading up on the day before. Historian Heather Cox Richardson tells me how today relates … Continue reading The Grassroots Does It Again

When Good People Do Nothing

"Listen, I've got something very obvious to tell you. You're not allowed to give up. If they decide to kill me, it means we are incredibly strong. We need to utilize this power. To not give up. To remember we are a huge power that his being oppressed by these bad dudes. We don't realize … Continue reading When Good People Do Nothing