Make Them Eat Their Policies

I couldnโ€™t have been more than 8 years old, but I remember it like it was yesterday. My mom and I were at Cub Foods, a no-frills store where you bagged your own groceries as they flew down this fancy mechanical belt. It was 20 minutes further from home, but it was a little less … Continue reading Make Them Eat Their Policies

Go Sing Your Song: Joy As Resistance and Fuel

A friend took this photo of me at an open mic night last Friday. When she showed it to me, I realized it would shock people. Image credit: Micheleโ€™s friend Janet U. Subscribe Thatโ€™s me at the microphone โ€“ singing publicly for the first time in 25 years, and playing guitar in front of an … Continue reading Go Sing Your Song: Joy As Resistance and Fuel

The Long Game, Trees, and TN-07: Building Infrastructure, Not Just Winning Races

Thereโ€™s an old saying that the best day to have planted a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time is today. I was thinking of that last Tuesday, as the results from the Tennessee special election came in. Youโ€™ve no doubt read about Aftyn Behnโ€™s race in TN-07, and the 13 point shift … Continue reading The Long Game, Trees, and TN-07: Building Infrastructure, Not Just Winning Races

Growing In the Dark: Seeds and Water and Warmth and Time

We snaked through the trees and came up over the hill to find ourselves standing before a scorched field. In the cold and the damp I could feel, more than smell, the acrid in the air. โ€œSometimes you have to burn a field to help it grow,โ€ I said to my son. But also to myself. … Continue reading Growing In the Dark: Seeds and Water and Warmth and Time

Are You Going This Year?: Holidays for Red State Democrats

โ€œAre you going this year?โ€ Itโ€™s the question Iโ€™ve been asking friends for weeks now. And itโ€™s the question theyโ€™ve been asking me. The conversations always sound the same. There are logistics โ€“ the drive time, whoโ€™s hosting, whether you can claim car trouble as an excuse. Then we move to justifications โ€“ theyโ€™re old, … Continue reading Are You Going This Year?: Holidays for Red State Democrats

What’s Stopping You?

One Question. Nine Years. $1 Million. I still remember where I was sitting. It was a table close to the corner, right by the big front window. The sunlight was coming through just so, throwing a spotlight on the floor and warming my back. It was a scarlet red time, right after the 2016 election. … Continue reading What’s Stopping You?

You, Too, Can Lift A Car: Life Demands Courage

The most powerful lesson you can learn in running? You are capable of much, much more than you think. ~Amby Burfoot A quick story: In 1977, a 63-year-old woman named Laura Schultz lifted a car off of her grandson, saving his life. She was a petite woman who had never lifted more than 50 pounds. … Continue reading You, Too, Can Lift A Car: Life Demands Courage

Tank Man Had Shopping Bags. She Had a Polka Dot Dress.

One person can make a difference, and everyone should try. ~John F. Kennedy Last week, a woman in a polka dot dress stopped traffic in New York City. Her defiant image went viral. And reminded me of a man who, on a summer day in 1989, became world famous. We still donโ€™t know who he … Continue reading Tank Man Had Shopping Bags. She Had a Polka Dot Dress.

Small Towns, Red States, No Kings

On Saturday โ€“ in the pouring rain and surrounded by drummers and inflatable characters from Sponge Bob Square Pants โ€“ my son turned to look at me with the earnest, questioning eyes of a young man coming of age in a most uncertain time. โ€œMomma,โ€ he paused, raindrops splattering on our shared umbrella. โ€œIf we … Continue reading Small Towns, Red States, No Kings

The Party I Almost Missed

Show Up Anyway A few Saturdays ago, I crashed a party. I was supposed to go to the Great Balloon Race with my 13-year old, who had been looking forward to this St. Louis tradition for weeks. Itโ€™s a massive hot air balloon race across the city; people come in from all over the country … Continue reading The Party I Almost Missed